5 Powerful Ways to Shine as a Creative Misfit (Even When You Feel Left Out)

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Calling all creative misfits! You’re not alone. Join us this Halloween for a magical mermaid retreat where your light will be celebrated, not dimmed.

You Are Not Alone, Misfit Mermaid

Have you ever felt like you just… didn’t quite belong?

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Being a creative misfit means you were never meant to blend in… you were born to stand out.

Your quirks, your vision, your voice, they all have a place here.

If you’ve ever felt like the odd one out, just know: your tribe is out there, and your magic is needed.

Maybe you’ve been the quiet creative. The dreamer. The one who colors outside the lines, who’s been told you’re too much or not enough.

Maybe you’ve been left out of the group chats, passed over for the roles, or made to feel like your light was too bright for the room.

I see you. I am you. Although I was one of the first freediving mermaids for Ripley’s Aquarium, I once believed the noise was true and I didn’t belong in a world that I loved so much. The magical realm of mermaids and mythical creatures…

Over the years, I’ve learned that sometimes, you have to search far and wide for your true tribe.

You know, the kind of people who don’t just accept your magic… they celebrate it and push you to shine even brighter than you already do.

And yes, just like high school, the creative world can have cliques. There are spaces where people will try to dim your shine, question your worth, or make you feel like you don’t have a seat at the table.

But let me be the one to say it loud and clear:

You ARE good enough. You ARE beautiful. You ARE talented. You DO belong.

✨And if no one has ever told you that, you’re hearing it now.✨

That’s why I created something special. For the dreamers. The mermaids. The misfits and mystics. The ones who just want to feel seen and celebrated in a world that often overlooks us.


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Finding your creative tribe means finding people who see your weird, your wild, your heart, and sit with you anyway. Even the skeleton crew needs soulmates. 🖤

No Bullies Allowed

There used to be a time when it felt like bullies ran the world… And in some ways, they still try.

They show up in casting rooms, classrooms, social media feeds, and even in our own inner dialogue. They say you’re not pretty enough, not talented enough, not worthy of being seen.

And for a long time, you might’ve believed them. You might’ve dimmed your light, stayed quiet, played small just to survive.

But something shifts when you stop letting their voices be louder than your own. When you begin to stand in your full power (not watered down, and full of apologies for being you). You realize that the bullies were never stronger… just louder.

The more you choose to show up as your full, radiant, weird, wild, creative self, the more their grip loosens. That’s when the healing begins. That’s when everything starts to change. And you don’t have to do that alone!

At our Healing Creative Retreat, you’ll have the space to unpack that pain. Whether it’s from your past or something you’re still carrying today.

You’ll be surrounded by others who know what it’s like to be shut out, overlooked, or underestimated. But here, we lift each other up. Here, you’re safe to be seen, celebrated, and supported in your full glow.

Finding your creative tribe can be hard. Personally, it took me over a decade to find mine, but it was worth the wait!


Confidence for Artists

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Confidence for artists
doesn’t come overnight, it’s built through every brave step you take in your craft.

Whether you’re a painter, actor, singer, or underwater mermaid muse, your art is worthy, and so are you.

Building confidence as an artist takes time, and often, a lot of unlearning.

We are our own harshest critics, constantly questioning our worth, our talent, and our progress.

Even when we’re doing incredible work, it’s easy to feel like it’s not enough. Like we’re not enough.

Whether you’re a photographer, actor, mermaid, singer, voiceover artist, or any other kind of creative soul, chances are you’ve had moments where you’ve dimmed your own light. You hold back. You shrink your creativity.

Not because you aren’t good, but because the weight of comparison, rejection, and perfectionism makes it feel like success is always just out of reach.

But the truth is: your light was never meant to be small. Confidence doesn’t appear overnight, it’s built moment by moment, in safe spaces, surrounded by people who reflect back the beauty and power you’ve forgotten you hold.


🎃 Join Us for the Halloween Mermaid Shellebration!

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Confidence for artists isn’t loud, it’s fluid, like water.

This underwater moment captures the quiet strength artists hold when they trust their voice, beauty, and creative flow.

October 31 – November 2
📍 Sea-cret Location in Ormond Beach, Florida (location revealed when ticket is purchased for safety reasons)

We’re hosting a Halloween Mermaid Retreat unlike anything you’ve experienced. One that’s filled with spooky magic, soul-deep healing, and creative play. This is not your average creative healing retreat. This is a SHELLEBRATION of YOU!!!!

🖤 What’s included:

  • Mermaid & Halloween-themed photoshoots
  • Sound healing & guided meditation
  • Journaling & reflection time
  • Mindset & confidence coaching
  • A community of artists, weirdos, and wonder-seekers just like you

If you’ve been feeling lost, left out, or longing for real connection, this is your invitation. There are people out there who will support you, motivate you, and lift you higher.

We’re gathering on sacred coastal ground to play, to heal, and to remember how powerful we are when we come together.

Costumes encouraged. Vulnerability welcome. Wholeness celebrated!!!


🌟 5 Mindset Tips for Creatives to Start Shifting Your Light TODAY:

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Ready to reconnect with your inner magic?

Our Mermaid Retreat is a whimsical, healing escape for creative misfits who crave confidence, community, and coastal vibes.

Whether or not you can join us at the Halloween Mermaid Retreat Shellebration, here are some mindset tools you can start using right now to reconnect to your power and level up your life:

1. Create a “Proof of Magic” Folder

Collect screenshots, messages, photos, and wins (big or small), that remind you of your progress and worth. Open it on the hard days. You’ll remember just how far you’ve come.

2. Speak to Yourself Like a Best Friend

Catch your inner critic in the act. Would you talk to a friend that way? Replace harsh thoughts with encouraging ones: “I’m learning. I’m growing. I’m doing my best.”

3. Do One Brave Thing a Day

It could be posting your art, saying “no” to energy-drainers, or applying to something that scares you (just a little). Confidence is built in motion, not perfection.

4. Unfollow What Doesn’t Feed You

Seriously. If scrolling leaves you feeling “less than,” it’s time to curate a feed that inspires and uplifts you. Protect your energy like the precious treasure it is.

5. Write a Letter to Your Future Self

Tell them who you’re becoming. What you’ve overcome. What you’re calling in. Keep it somewhere safe. Let it be a roadmap when things feel foggy.


✨Spots are limited and will sell out, so if you’re ready to be part of something unforgettable, don’t wait. Join us this Halloween and rediscover the power of your own light.✨

🔗 Sign Up To Get Spooky & Soulful Together This Halloween!

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